Author Archives: Susan

Listen

“We are all taught to speak. Only 50% of our population is taught to listen.” ~ Marilyn Shannon
What’s that old saying? We are given two ears and one mouth, so we should listen twice as much as we speak? Too bad no one seems to practice that! I heard a very thought-provoking presentation by [...]

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Dressing for Success

It was time to get a professional “head shot” – informal pictures of me sitting on rocks or at the beach were fine for some of the Calm and Sense publicity I do, but sometimes I need a “grown up” picture. So I signed up for a session with a professional photographer and jumped at [...]

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Free Holiday Gift Ideas

Giving gifts during the holiday can be a wonderful custom, full of fun and memories. But it can sometimes cause extreme stress due to lack of time and, in this economy, lack of money. But using a little imagination and maybe a little time, can turn this holiday tradition back into the thing it was [...]

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Guardian Angel

He was tall with blond hair topped in a long crew cut, and he flashed the biggest grin I had ever seen. His drawl proclaimed “southern boy” before he could even finish 5 words.  When he first came (okay, swaggered) into my store last year, dressed in his Raleigh Fire Department uniform, my first thought [...]

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Liberty and Justice for All

The baby smiles as the morning light hits her face, warming her skin, which smells sweet from her bath. She is picked up and cuddled; her coos bring smiles to her mother’s face.
The baby cries alone in her crib, her miserable wails ignored as her teenage mother, who dropped out of high school, watches [...]

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Same Time, Next Year

One of my favorite movies is “Same Time Next Year”, a funny, touching moving about a couple who only see each other once a year for a weekend tryst. The movie chronicles the decades they spend together, 3 days at a time, and the changes their lives go through.
 
In a funny way, I live that [...]

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Shop Unchained

As a new business owner competing in a challenging economic climate with big box stores with multi-million dollar advertising budgets, it is easy to feel a bit like David in a share of mind battle with Goliath. So I joined a local initiative called Shop Local Raleigh which is encouraging folks to support independent stores [...]

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The ABCs of Life

In this season of materialism and stress, it is important to put things into
perspective. Consider focusing on one of these each day in the month
of November. And maybe you will find that it lasts longer than one month!
 
Allow others to be right
Be content with what you have
Count your blessings
Dream
Examine your motives
Forgive
Go out into [...]

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Building a Community

The following was written by my friend and neighbor, Kathleen, who responded to a posting that I put in our community listserv asking for help with a playground project in a challenged neighborhood. I was totally inspired by what she wrote and in honor of National Volunteer Week, I wanted to share it with all [...]

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Dreams

Back in the day, colleges sent out letters to inform students whether they had been accepted. The thickness of the envelope told you whether it was a “yes” (additional forms to fill out and probably the instructions for turning over your life’s savings ;-), or a “no” (really, how many words does it take to [...]

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