How Pitta dominant your individual nature is (see our webpage, “What is Ayurveda,” http://www.ayubwc.com/ayurveda.html if you are still not sure) and also how you cope with the extreme temperature might affect how oppressive the recent heat wave has been to both your bodily comfort and also your mood.

Things that may exacerbate or indicate rising Pitta levels in the body/mind:

•  Eating too much spicy or acidic food, or drinking dehydrating alcoholic beverages.    Remedy:  Choose light crisp vegetables and salads, juicy fruits, and cooling, rehydrating drinks instead

• Burning, drying or irritating skin.  Remedy:  Enjoy an Ayurvedic massage, for relaxation but also to soothe the skin - we can use a pitta-friendly oil to rehydrate and protect tender skin this summer.  If you are Pitta dominant and prone to sensitive skin, wearing appropriate cover-up clothing/hats is always wise when enjoying the beach or the pool or your own garden.

•  Getting caught up in projects (personal or work-related) or being sucked in to “road rage” mentality while traveling.   Remedy:  Take breaks often to calm potentially escalating intensity.  A two to three minute breath-centered meditation can be used throughout the day.  Spend time in the water (be it a pool, the ocean or a bath at home) Aromatherapy is often very effective in cooling the mind/temper.  Try Rose Oil or Lavender in a bath, lotion or misting spray.

Whether this is your favorite time of year or your least, take some time to enjoy the activities you cherish with the ones you love this summer.

About the Author: Karie Wik, LMBT, CYT, is an ayurvedic practioner at the Ayurvedic Bodywork Center in Raleigh

The problem.

Life quickly becomes completely overwhelming.  Bills need to be paid, work needs to be accomplished… There’s precious little time to be stopping to smell the roses when you’re desperately trying to meet your deadlines.  So, how can the modern, over-caffeinated professional inject a little bit of Zen calm into their already packed schedule?

Finding your Zen.

The answer is simple: try to make every moment a Zen moment.  Each and every moment you’re alive is a moment you’ll never have back.  When you’re driving to work, ignore the traffic for a moment and really look around you.  If it’s a nice day, notice the sunshine and trees.  If it’s raining or just plain nasty out, take a minute to think about your life and your place in the universe.  Just a few moments of reflection can alleviate a great deal of stress. 

Stress is a killer.

Stress is the ultimate killer. It’s been proven to contribute to cancer and other major diseases.  Before women entered the workforce, their rate of heart attacks was nearly half that of men.  While the protective effects of estrogen on the heart keep the number of female heart attack victims lower than the number of male victims, the rate of female stress-related heart attacks is rising every year. 

Clearly, both men and women could benefit from a little stress reduction.

While living in the moment might not completely counteract your stress-filled schedule, it will give you a fighting chance of enjoying more of your 9 to 5 workweek.  Just remember that you need look no further than your dog, cat, or your cute little niece or nephew for inspiration.   

Bio: Alexis Bonari is a freelance writer and blog junkie. She often can be found blogging about education and scholarships for college. In her spare time, she enjoys square-foot gardening, swimming, and avoiding her laptop.

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Everyone knows that yoga improves flexibility, strength and mental focus, but did you know that the practice is also one of the best treatments for that common ailment, JUSTONEMOREITIS? You know when you are driving home from Super Target and a new bag of chocolate covered pretzels magically appears in the front seat, opened, with your hand in it. As you reach for your 20th piece you suddenly realize you are eating, and decide you will have just one more. Then the internal battle: first, the futile bargaining, followed by the “oh what the heck, I’ve already ruined my diet today” and finally - all dialogue is drowned out by the crackle of the empty bag. You are disappointed, and slightly sick.

Logical strategies for preventing this scene may be to eat before you shop, or don’t buy the pretzels in the first place, in other words, exert more self-control. But if self-control is the key to weight loss, why do most diets fail? Because the issue is not self-control but rather self-awareness. Self-restriction leads to rebellion, eventually dissolves your resolution and ultimately, your self-confidence. Individuals who are at peace with food, their bodies and selves, achieve healthy weight and/or nutrition goals, as a by-product of a more balanced perspective.

Yoga reinforces this inside-out philosophy, supporting my nutrition practice and life in general. Through yoga I am better able to relax, and stay connected to my body. This grounding nurtures positive food choices and helps me let go of destructive judgments, which chip away at self-confidence. At first, practicing yoga was more like playing Twister - right foot here, left hand there -and meditation was time to mentally review my to-do list. Gradually, I internalized the flow of a typical practice; I learned to quiet my “monkey mind”, surrender the thoughts, continually returning to my breath. I learned to embody the yoga postures by feeling the physical sensations, rather than scrutinizing my mastery. I guess I can say that now I’m looking at life through yoga-colored goggles.

In the dentist chair I use breathing techniques to remain calm, and apply the principles of quieting, centering and dropping inward to my relationships with exercise and food. Bicycling uphill, I breathe in to the resisting muscles. Mindless snacking? I redirect my attention to my inhales and exhales, and observe. I don’t berate my behaviors; I do witness and explore.

On my sticky mat I focus on what adjustments I can make to realize the full expression of the pose, not how I look. Yoga helps me appreciate my body’s abilities, instead of objectifying them. I want to make healthy choices, out of respect for my body, not because I have to fit into a certain pair of jeans. In general, thanks to yoga I believe I I am better able to nourish physical hunger with food that satisfies, and quell other desires with similarly appropriate responses.

In summary:  Should you find yourself regretting, ruminating, or yearning for a better way, I encourage you to try on a pair of yoga-colored goggles. Yoga will help hone the tools you need to transform your “shoulds” to “want to’s” and put an end those inner battles - for good. Peace, shalom, namaste and good health - from the inside out!

Simone Horvitz is a professional a nutrition coach with Strategic Bites, www.strategicbites.com. 

Unfortunately, many of us can relate to a toxic work environment where management is playing CYA or hiding incompetence and laziness in the guise of “giving you opportunities for growth” (meanwhile you are collapsing from overwork and unrealistic expectations while they play golf every Friday). Then there is the Faction Manager who seems to only thrive when fighting with someone, and heaven help you if you are today’s target! My most memorable “bad boss” was the woman who lectured me about being more professional at work, then came back from a 2-hour lunch with her hair in disarray and dress wrinkled. Hmmm, guess she was attending a “business lunch” with that colleague?

Not everyone can do what I did and chuck it to follow a dream of self-employment, so for those left in the world of dysfunction, here are some tips for surviving stress at work:

1. Get Moving: Taking a walk at lunch can remove you from the environment as well as give you a chance to blow off some steam. Or have a squeeze ball handy and take frustration out on that (note: drawing the offender’s face on the ball is cute but don’t make it too identifiable!)
2. Eat Smarter: Because low blood sugar makes you anxious and irritable, watch for signs that a snack might help and keep your drawer filled with healthy choices.
3. Learn to Use Your Emotional Intelligence: As tempting as it is to say that someone else is causing it, “stress” is really our internal reaction to external stimuli; in other words, we have the power to control and eliminate it. Here are some great tips on using your EI: http://www.helpguide.org/mental/eq5_raising_emotional_intelligence.htm

• Realize when you’re stressed – The first step to reducing stress is recognizing what stress feels like. Many of us spend so much time in an unbalanced state that we’ve forgotten what it feels like to be calm and relaxed.
• Identify your stress response – Everyone reacts differently to stress. Do you tend to space out and get depressed? Become angry and agitated? Freeze with anxiety? The best way to quickly calm yourself depends on your specific stress response.
• Discover the stress busting techniques that work for you – The best way to reduce stress quickly is through the senses: through sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch. But each person responds differently to sensory input, so you need to find things that are soothing to you.

If you ready to put your emotional and professional life in your own hands, there are plenty of options ranging from freelancing, buying a franchise, starting your own company, doing multi-level marketing and more. Here are some resources that might help you determine your best fit: http://www.buzzle.com/articles/self-employment/.  If you do decide to start your own business, become the happy and motivated “boss” you deserve: http://selfemployment.suite101.com/article.cfm/motivational-tips-for-the-self-employed

Whether you stay in your current job, get a new job or strike out on your own, remember this great David Rankin quote: “Instead of thinking about where you are, think about where you want to be.” And Good Luck!!

Eastern cultures have developed whole, sophisticated systems of decoration, each with their own attendant philosophy.  The most commonly discussed of these is Feng Shui.  This traditional Chinese philosophy is based upon the idea that changing the way you perceive the world around you is a quicker, more effective way of changing your emotional state than changing your inner attitudes and behavior. Changing your house, office or other area you frequent to reflect good energy traits encourages you to take on these traits yourself.

At its most basic, Feng Shui philosophy encourages the potential home designer to use themes from the five Chinese elements as inspiration.  These elements are: wood, fire, earth, metal, and water.  Each element lends specific characteristics that, when taken together, help create positive energy.

Science seconds the claims made by Feng Shui proponents.  Time and again, studies have shown people respond emotionally to different colors.  Red intensifies energy, but can cause anxiety.  Green is a creative, relaxed color. Blue is also a relaxed color, but can increase depressed states…

Also, we have found that humans are drawn to patterns that are reminiscent of the fractal patterns found in nature.  For an example of a fractal pattern, look the arms of a snowflake or the branches of a tree. They all follow a similar, ordered pattern, but each one is uniquely different. An environment that is too chaotic will elicit a chaotic emotional state. An environment that is too ordered is oppressive.

Changing the layout of your house or workspace could potentially increase your productivity and improve your mood.  Under the right circumstances, a little redecorating could be more effective and less expensive than seeing a therapist or taking Prozac. 

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Bio: Alexis Bonari is a freelance writer and blog junkie. She is currently a resident blogger at onlinedegrees.org, researching areas of online college degrees: http://www.onlinedegrees.org/blog/

In her spare time, she enjoys square-foot gardening, swimming, and avoiding her laptop.

But this week I discovered a store here in Raleigh that spends as much time finding homes for hard-to-place dogs and cats as it does selling its beautiful and unique jewelry. Many of these animals have been abandoned beside the road, or have been injured or abused, making them poor adoption candidates at conventional shelters. But the owner of Cat Banjo in Raleigh’s Cameron Village has made it her mission to pair loving and lovable dogs and cats with worthy humans. If you are looking for love, look no further than the adoption list they update regularly. And when you need to be reassured that there is still love and compassion in the world, check out http://www.facebook.com/pages/Raleigh-NC/Cat-Banjo/63478030842

Keith brings many of the same sensory experiences into the Reiki session that I had enjoyed with the massage, but it also intrigued me that someone could “touch” my energy and not only know I was stressed but do something about it! How cool is that?

The session started with settling onto a table she covered with a silk cloth; music accompanied the session and started to calm me right way. She did a “reading” of where my body and mind were at and she moved purposefully but softly. When you are around Keith you can feel her kindness and energy and you can also sense that her laughter is just under the surface. She makes you feel good just being in her presence.

An hour somehow melted by and I loved the entire experience. For the rest of the day I felt more at peace, more confident and, well, just happier! It’s sort of a hard thing to describe but definitely one I want to experience again. Thank you, Keith, for an extraordinary experience.

Happy Earth Day!!

We were delighted to host local realtor Louise Griffin last evening for an informative talk about “Living Green”. She came with tons of helpful information that I wanted to share with those that couldn’t join us.

For those of you that live here in the Raleigh area:

1. Get rebates on air duct repair (up to $120 per unit), attic improvements (up to $375), HVAC replacement (up to $300) and window replacement (up to $450). Visit www.savethewatts.com or call 866-990-4347
2. Enjoy the Green Home Tour on May 15 & 16 to see certified green homes to get ideas on how you can make your home more eco-friendly. See www.trianglegreenhometour.com or call 919-493-8899
3. Consider purchasing carbon offsets or supporting Green Power here in NC by visiting www.ncgreenpower.org or call 866-533-6247

Get tips on water conservation and other everyday ways to use less and recycle more:

1. www.lazyenvironmentalist.com
2. www.earth911.org
3. www.wateruseitwisely.com/100ways

Here at Calm and Sense we find and offer products from companies that are environmentally and socially responsible, we recycle everything we don’t use, we reuse packaging materials, and we minimize our utilities. We would love to hear ideas from our customers and readers about other ways that we can continue to be as green as possible.

Anger can be helpful (it is part of our primal fight or flight response that has kept mortals alive since our existence). But “chronic anger not only affects our relationships with others, it can harm our bodies, leading to heart disease, diabetes and other healthy problems.” It can send your hormone levels out of whack, and your blood pressure and pulse rate go way up*. It has been linked to decreases in the immune system and increases in our depression rates. So really, is the idiot yakking on the cell phone who doesn’t remember to use his turn signal worth a heart attack?  

So what do we do when we are surrounded by angry people? How do we avoid turning into the beast ourselves? Here are some techniques that experts offer to help us get control of those emotions and rein in our desire pull an adult tantrum:

1. Assume innocence: instead of jumping to a conclusion that someone meant to hurt your feelings or deliberately insulted you, come from a position of assuming that they didn’t know your reaction would be like that or that they meant no harm. Haven’t we all had a slip of the tongue and said things that we regretted once said, or realized later had an undesired affect? Cut the other person some slack!

2. Change your response to a positive one: try thinking of the upside to being subjected to some jerk’s cell phone call or missing the start to the movie. My favorite one when I get caught at a red light is to say “who knows, if I had made that yellow light I might have been in wrong place up the road and involved in an accident.” Or “This insufferable boor’s toe fungus story is going to make a hilarious anecdote to tell my friends.”

3. Relax and take a deep breath: I know, easier said than done sometimes. And even though I am in a relaxation store all day long, even I can forget this one occasionally ;-)  But try the classic long slow breaths while you count to ten, after a few you will find yourself better able to cope.

So how about you, can you suggest some tips for not letting anger bring out the beast in you?

Source: WebMD

Leigh and Meredith, the talented owners of Moonlight Design (www.moonlightdsgn.com) 

here in Raleigh, and saw that March’s color was green, I started to skip over it. 

But then my eye was caught by the statement that people who like the color 

Green are: "usually gentle and sincere, they like peace, harmony and balance. 

Greens are generally frank, community minded and sociable. They are also 

modest and patient, so they can be exploited by others. They are also 

refined, civilized and reputable.”

Well, I think I see a lot of myself in that description (however, my 
friends and family would argue against any characterization of me being patient!!).
But in addition to tall the nice things listed, green is also associated with jealousy
(“green with envy”), naivety or inexperience (“green on the job”) and don’t forget, 
the Incredible Hulk turned green with uncontrolled rage.

The topic intrigued me and I surfed the net and found a site with more information: 

http://www.care2.com/greenliving/favorite-color-personality.html . 

Is our choice of color really a glimpse into our true being? Are we different 

colors at different stages in our lives? Maybe even depending on the circumstances 

like at home versus work? Maybe I am little Red as well: “the color chosen by 

someone outgoing, aggressive, vigorous and impulsive.” Or would my family 

call me purple?: “Temperamental, expansive and artistic, a Purple person may 

become aloof and sarcastic when misunderstood”. 

We all seek insights into our behavior and how others see us. What color day 

are you having?